Journey to a balanced and complete self.
Even in my adolescence I found establishing and maintaining a routine was extremely important. Being prepared for what is to come helped to leave room for the unexpected and ensure the achievement of ultimate goals. Now as I am in the thick of adulting I am finding there is never enough time in the day,... Continue Reading →
Reading up on various therapeutic techniques dialectical behavioral therapy stood out for its mindful focused ideas. Leading life in the present tense is said to promote a balance between the heart, the mind, and how a person reacts. The three states of mind described by DBT are the reasonable mind, emotional mind, and the wise... Continue Reading →
The ability to wholeheartedly exercise patience, to pardon, and to praise others involves actively doing these things on a personal level. Most of us are hardwired or taught to put family, friends, and community before ourselves. But how can you teach without learning, how can you help without practice, and how can you heal if... Continue Reading →
Decision making is a process often reliant on experience and emotions. Deciphering between the two is not an easy task especially when the stakes are high. Instinctual or intuitive thoughts begin with a sense of feeling certain that something is just not right. Fear can manifest after the anxiety sets in or at the cusp... Continue Reading →
People are often faced with the daunting task of purging something or someone of importance for one reason or another. The hesitation to go through with a break up, change jobs, or relocate manifests mostly out of fear of the unknown. The mind becomes plagued with "what ifs" and although the decision has already been... Continue Reading →
Signs can be seen everywhere. They can guide a person toward a particular path, and provide the motivation to navigate through difficult situations. Symbols are controlled by a person's perception. Thoughts, societal views, and experiences dictate the power found within a emblem, object, image, or occurrence. Culture is another important facet to symbolism and its... Continue Reading →
Working toward creating and leading a full life takes time, effort, patience, and the will to persevere. This is especially true when road blocks fall in the path. These bumps in the road, as I like to say, can curtail a dream or worse make you lose faith in your abilities. The best line of... Continue Reading →
We are just two weeks away from turkey, stuffing, and quality family time. Although we all look forward to good food and company, the process can be stressful and the conversation can take a judgemental turn. Having the thoughts and opinions of family members is unavoidable, so to make it through with some semblance of... Continue Reading →
The holidays are less than 3 weeks out and it is the time of year many begin to reflect on their life and relationships. Before focusing on the present it is common to review the past. Today's post, I have to admit, was inspired by Ariana Grande's latest hit "Thank you, Next" where she pays... Continue Reading →
